In a video shared online, former Big Brother Naija housemate Tolanibaj admitted that clubbing no longer excites her and revealed she has only been “forcing it” whenever she goes out.
“I gotta start being honest with myself. I no longer enjoy clubbing. I keep forcing it, bruh. I wanna see if I can experience some kind of excitement. I need excitement in my life,” she said.
According to the reality star, the loud music, endless dancing, and late nights no longer bring her fulfillment. Instead, she said she now craves something deeper.
“I’m tired of clubbing. I don’t wanna be outside doing what? What am I looking for outside if I have a partner? … I don’t feel like pretending to be having fun in the club anymore,” she explained.
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Tolanibaj also hinted that marriage might be the next big step for her, although she admitted the idea still feels like a scary commitment.
“I think it’s time to get married. Yeah, I want to see if I can get married for like two days just to see if I like it. That’s a scary commitment, y’all. Like, how am I not sure that after one month I will not start saying yeah,” she joked.
With this bold revelation, Tolanibaj appears ready to leave the nightlife behind and focus on what truly excites her — love, marriage, and maybe finding the right man to keep her entertained off the dance floor.

