Popular Nigerian TikToker, Jarvis, also known as Jadrolita, has set social media buzzing after revealing her relationship expectations during a candid livestream with Tunde Perry.
In the session, Jarvis made it clear that she will not take her relationship with Peller to a more intimate level until traditional requirements are fulfilled. She revealed that despite already handling domestic responsibilities such as cooking, cleaning, and caring for him, Peller has yet to formally show his commitment by paying her bride price.
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She stated emphatically:
“Peller has to marry me before we can do the do. Peller has not put money on my head. He should go and put money on my head first. At the moment, I’m cooking, cleaning and taking care of him for free. After he pays, then I will open the gate of heaven for him.”
Jarvis’ statement has since sparked mixed reactions online. While some fans praised her for upholding cultural values and demanding respect, others debated the role of tradition in modern relationships, with conversations around gender expectations, love, and personal boundaries trending across social media platforms.
The clip from the livestream has been widely shared, prompting discussions about how young couples balance love, tradition, and modern relationship norms in Nigeria.
“Peller has to marry be before we can do the do, I cook and clean for him for now and that’s Enough”
Jarvis pic.twitter.com/evpi0AROSP
— Oyindamola🙄 (@dammiedammie35) April 6, 2026