A Nigerian man has sparked debate after rejecting his wife’s family burial levy.
The man, identified as Ebun, said his in-laws asked each son-in-law to pay ₦500,000 for the burial of his late father-in-law.
He shared the story on X, explaining that the demand caused tension at home when he refused.
“My wife has been fighting me because I refused to pay ₦500,000 to bury her father,” he wrote.
Ebun said the deceased had five grown sons, which influenced his decision.
“I told my wife, ‘I’m sorry, but it’s not my responsibility to bury your father when his own sons are alive and well.’”
According to him, his wife reported the issue to her family, who then contacted him.
“They called me, expecting me to comply. I told them clearly; I will give what I can, but I won’t be forced to pay a fixed amount.”
His response did not go down well.
“They got angry, called me rude, and said they don’t want my money again.”
He added that the situation has affected his marriage.
“Now my wife hasn’t spoken to me since. I’m the one being punished for refusing to do what her brothers should be doing.”
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The post has since drawn mixed reactions online.
One user disagreed with his stance, writing:
“I don’t agree with the husband. By virtue of marriage, he is now part of the family. His response that it’s not his responsibility was very wrong.”
Another user criticised his approach, saying:
“You didn’t apply wisdom. You could have just paid what you can instead of saying all that.”
Others, however, said support should not be forced.
“Support should come from willingness. Even if he won’t give ₦500k, he can give what he can,” one comment read.
Another added:
“Your support should be willingly, not by imposition. If you don’t have, no one should force you.”
The debate continues, with many divided over family expectations and financial responsibilities in marriage.