After our publication on eight types of women you shouldn’t marry, our female readers said unless we replicate same about men, we would be seen as chauvinists. Today, we balance that script.
The good thing about writing for either male or female is that the opposite sex knows what to look out for and the others know what to improve upon.
Among the many types of men you don’t want to end with, these are our major pick:
1 The one that wants your money
It is bad enough for a woman to be in a relationship for the money, it is worse off it is a man because the disadvantages are way more than you’d one to risk.
Regardless of how rich a lady is, it is the responsibility of the man to be the first finance source of a relationship because it not only commands respect, it adds value to the contribution of the man as the leader of the pack.
How do you know if he’s after your money? He talks about things he cannot afford at the moment because he knows you’d offer to get them (just the girl way too). He is lazy and lacks creative ideas to make money. He isn’t much of a risk taker and it makes him achieve almost nothing.
2 The one that complains about trivial issues
Some school of thoughts have it that an average girl says about 7,000 words daily while a man goes about 4,000, but the moment a guy talks too much, he is likely going to become a vain commentator about the simplest issues of life.
If it is trivial, a guy is expected to fix it without much ado, the moment he tries to display knowledge by complaining about everything, he loses more than half of the total package that makes a man.
When he gives you this petty complain attitude without abetting, you may want to pass him onto your neighbour, and he’s not likely going to be a great dad.
3 The man that’s never satisfied no matter what you do
Apart from money, one of the best gifts you can give to a woman is gratitude; there is never enough of it anyway.
Of course, ladies could be extreme (sometimes) with almost everything, and a dissatisfied man would only make life harder.
Now, there is a difference between a never satisfied guy and the one that only wants you to get better, you don’t have to be too critical when he gives you a talking to, but when he tries to ALWAYS have a second view about what you do or not to, you may want to review the terms and conditions of your relationship if there are any.
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4 The one that doesn’t see anything good in his woman
You know, whenever this guy sees a Kim Kardashian curve, he goes moody and remembers his plus size woman and everything goes south. Next time he sees his ex, he remembers those traits he wishes his wife has and begins to act up.
You definitely don’t want that man for the rest of your life that places you on a concurrent list instead of an exclusive list.
5 The one that cheats
So many things said about a cheating husband and while some thinks cheating is an extra handbag for men, it is a vice and possibly avoided.
Good guys cheat, bad guys cheat and as somebody put it, if he loves you enough, he wouldn’t let you know he is cheating.
But the question is why would he justifiably want to cheat on you?
Ladies, if this is you, you know what to do, do the needful.
6 Men that expose his woman’s weakness
A woman should feel protected and secured especially when she is with her man, it naturally lifts the confidence of the lady in public, but when your man would rather beat it down, then, you have one more thing to be worried about.
Just like an orchestra leader, a woman gladly follows the lead of her man, with focus on every of his body languages, it influences how and when she smiles and in the same vein, the smiles could evaporate if her confidence is knocked out by her supposedly number one fan.
If he laughs at you in public or speaks ill of you in presence f your friends or his friends, I’m not sure he is worth the future.
7 The one that runs back to mummy whenever issues arise
You honestly don’t want to have a competitor in your man’s mother. It is everything different from what a side chic brings to the table and you just don’t want this kind of adventure.
I’ll tell you a story about a mummy’s boy.
Man was so attached to his mother that whenever he closes from work before marriage, he rushes to hang out with his mom; eats dinner and only went home to sleep and prepare for work the next day.
Man got married and guess what? He was so addicted to that mama routine that he still unconsciously went to his mother for dinner and when he got back to his wife, he would harmlessly tell her that he had had dinner thereby wasting whatsoever delicacy his wife prepared for him…you don’t want to be that lady, do you?
8 The men that don’t care about how their women feel
This like the previous seven above is a one-way traffic man. He lives for himself and always after what is in it for him.
He doesn’t want to read signs, as long as the woman isn’t saying it; it is none of his business.
While these attributes might be corrected, it is not in the place of any woman (or man) to try to change anybody. Majority of couples are only enduring after they discovered that what looks like what they can correct or control goes out of hand.
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