A young Nigerian lady has written to relationship blogger, Joro Olumofin stating that she is confused because her backup boyfriend proposed to her and she said yes not knowing how to treat her main boyfriend.
Meanwhile, she has been hiding her engagement ring from her main boyfriend, who is yet to pop the question to her.
In her words:
I currently cohabit with my boyfriend of 4 years for 6 months now, he is serious but wants to make money first before popping the question.
Yesterday a backup boyfriend I had but hardly see, proposed to me. I said yes but I hide the ring from my main boyfriend. How do I get out of this dilemma?
Both of them are still trying to make money but this other guy loves me more.
I don’t have enough money now, I would have gone to rent a place urgently till my new fiancee is ready to do the wedding .
I’ve been deceitful and I regret so badly! Guilt is killing me. I need advice on how to break the news and get free.